Don’t do THIS on the first day of your diet!

This describes the beginning of a lot of my grand plans.

Yesterday was Day One of my “diet” (I prefer “lifestyle change,” but that feels a little ambitious right now; I’d settle for just figuring out how not to binge on Cheetos multiple times per week), and I already screwed up. I think I’ll start collecting my screw-ups in a “what NOT to do to lose weight” list – maybe I’ll spare someone else my mistakes.

Anyway, here’s how I messed up yesterday. I was all set to go with myfitnesspal, but I hate – HATE – logging my food. It’s easy, it works, and yet still…I rebel. Yesterday’s rebellion was to log meals a few hours after I ate, basically when I had a free moment.

Here’s why this doesn’t work. According to myfitnesspal, I need to eat 1250 calories a day to lose 1.5lbs per week right now (I’m hoping to increase this later, but I was honest about my activity level, which is minimal right now – I basically work, write, and play with my kids. Need to add exercise, obviously, but one day at a time).

Anyway, by the time I got around to logging at 2pm or so, I had already eaten breakfast, a morning snack, and lunch. And, apparently, I didn’t do so hot, as I was already up to 950 calories! The idea of only eating 300 calories for the rest of the day sounded horrible, so I just gave up entirely for the day. And we all know what happens when we “give up” and decide to “start again tomorrow.” I’ll spare you the gory details, but, let’s just say that cupcakes were involved.

So, starting over today, with two new tips:

1. Log your meals RIGHT AWAY; that way you don’t find out halfway through the day that your early meals were more calorie-laden than you thought.

2. If you do mess up one meal, don’t write off the whole day as lost. I probably could have gone over by just a few hundred calories if I’d just gotten myself on track the minute I realized I was off. Instead, I not only gave up – I went into, “Oh no, a diet is starting tomorrow!” mode all over again – and probably went over by 1,000 calories instead.


When does “baby weight” just become “overweight”?

Farewell, my love. Until we meet again…

I have a confession to make; I am currently technically obese. I have been since I gave birth to my twins in June 2016. I’ve made a few half-hearted efforts to lose the weight since then, but…did I mention twins? Oh, and when they were born, my older son wasn’t yet 2 years old yet. But, folks, it’s time. My back hurts, my knees hurt, and at some point, “baby weight” is just…weight.

So, new blog, new goal. Since I know so many moms struggle with this same thing, I thought I’d try to make this fun by tracking my progress. While this blog isn’t going to be dedicated just to weight loss (Boring!), it’s a fact that, for many of us, parenting comes with changes to our bodies, and one of those changes is often added weight. And any mom can tell you, losing baby weight comes with a very unique challenge – namely, the presence of said baby (or, in my case, three toddlers) taking up much of one’s time and emotional energy.

Before I give you my “starting stats” and plan, let me tell you how I got here. Back in 2015, I was a relatively average 5’5″, 135 pounds. Then between 2015 and 2019, I had 4 pregnancies back-to-back. The first two resulted in miscarriages, but still added some weight (probably biology + depression on those).

When I got pregnant with my oldest in 2016, I was about 145lbs. I then proceeded to gain 75lbs – yes, 75! – during that pregnancy. I attribute this to two things: 1. I was very sick during my first trimester, and the only thing that made it better was eating ALL THE FOOD; 2. All of the women in my family get enormous with they’re pregnancies. So, either there’s also a genetic component at play, or I was using that as an excuse as I saw the pounds pile on. Most likely, a bit of both.

I did lose some of that weight post-pregnancy, but when I got pregnant with the twins in 2018, I was still 175lbs. Then, I gained ANOTHER 75lbs with that pregnancy. It turned out that, thankfully, much of that was water weight, as I lost about 40lbs of it within 4 to 5 weeks of giving birth.

Since then, I’ve lost some more, but then, when the pandemic hit, I gained it all back. No real excuse on this one; I’ve just completely let myself go since beginning work-from-home in March 2020. Like, I don’t even want to tell you all how much leftover Halloween candy I ate last month, but let’s just say, I could probably have opened my own candy shop with the amount I consumed.

So, that brings us to today. Starting stats, 5’5″, 207lbs. My first step on this journey is signing up for a free myfitnesspal membership to track my calories. I used this once in the past, years ago, so I know it works. I just need to make sure I actually stick with it. And what better way to do that than by taking my journey public? Because, apparently, self-motivation isn’t enough for me; I think, however, that a little public shaming might do the trick! (J/k No one deserves shame over their weight! Bullshit beauty standards can go straight to hell! But, I am definitely unhealthy at the moment, so a little accountability and maybe the prospect of making some mom friends on the same journey is a nice motivator!)

In the beginning…